It is difficult, but not impossible, to conquer a girl who is not interested in a romantic relationship. A girl's refusal to date you can only be motivated by two reasons, it can be either due to the effects of a recent breakup or unwanted advances made to her by other men.[1][2] If you like a girl who does not want to have a romantic relationship with you, chat with her or invite her to go out with you with friends. The best way to get a girl to love you is to show her respect, consideration, be a good friend to her and above all patient.
Think about why you want the girl to appreciate you. Ask yourself what attracts you so much to this girl. The reason for her refusal to date you could be because she thinks you're only interested in her physique or superficial things.[3] If she realizes that she only receives these kinds of attention from the men who court her, she may feel disillusioned or better yet underestimated.[4][5] You must first take a step back and take stock of what you expect from a romantic relationship in terms of purpose before approaching it. Then ask yourself what qualities you are looking for in her. Here are some of them.Integrity: is it honest with itself and other people, is it assiduous? and does it inspire trust in others? Are you able to be upfront about your fears and points.Emotional maturity and self-esteem: No one is perfect, but the willingness to strive for perfection or learn from past mistakes (and apply lessons learned from your past mistakes) is a key characteristic of a person's emotional maturity. Emotionally immature girls are those who rely on others to assert their well-being and self-esteem and allow themselves to be dominated by their emotions.[6]Support, desire, and dedication to mature personally: You'll need to look for a girl who has her personal goals and actively pursues them, who is positive in all circumstances even if she faces a difficulty in life, who has a good relationship with her family and friends, and who encourages those around her.[7] However, the one who constantly puts his satisfaction above others and who is overly competitive or who often issues conclusions does very little in relationships. So be careful.
Make yourself more desired by women. One way to get noticed by girls is to distinguish yourself by how you look and act.[8] By agreeing to make small changes, you will not only be able to make yourself more loved by girls, but also increase your degree of confidence. These are usually small gestures that will set you apart from others, such as having good body hygiene and appearing caring towards your peers (even when she is not close to you.[9]Make your physique more attractive: it proves that you value yourself and that you take care of yourself. Make sure you always wear clean, well-ironed clothes, wash at least every other day, do your hair well, shave your beards well or trim them thoroughly.[10][11]Practice good oral hygiene, brush your teeth twice a day, and avoid foods that can cause bad breath, such as garlic and coffee.[12] Avoid passing too much cologne or using too many body sprays. Instead, you can use aftershave lotions or deodorants.Be relaxed and confident: don't let the fear that she will reject you stop you from flirting with her and trying to seduce her, even if she didn't seem to be interested in you at first. Girls don't like hanging out or walking with men who lack self-confidence.[13] Also, be aware that girls are more attracted to laid-back and less serious men and like to date these types of men.[14]
Chat with the girl you love, even if she seemed not to be interested in you. Allow him to notice your existence by starting a conversation and trying to establish a relationship of trust and friendship between you. Show her that you like her and that you would like to date her, but don't put pressure on her or be aggressive towards her. Get to know her better by asking her questions about her life or topics that interest you both, such as saying, "Hey, I just started watching a reality show (name it reality TV). Give me the name of your favorite actor or that she is your favorite season?[15] Talk briefly about the weather, your school activities, or what you eat. Break the ice by asking them to do you a favor, such as asking them to help you on a project or home exercise. Above all, avoid talking about politics, religion, your exes or former traumatic events.Grab her attention by crossing her gaze and laughing when you chat with her. Avoid speaking very quickly or using strong language. This will make them feel like you're nervous.[16]Walk slowly when you are together. This will show that you are casual open and approachable. This is an excellent quality to have in any friendship or romantic relationship.[17]Remember to be respectful. Be prepared to respect her decision to stay single. Leave without asking him about his decision. Be aware that some people are not compatible.
Don't make her realize that your feelings are mixed. The term mixed feeling refers to the difference between how others view you and how you think of yourself.[18] One of the reasons that might motivate her not to want to go out with you would be the fact that you send her unclear signs. For example, you constantly boast about dating her or being interested in other women, or you frequently argue with your friends.[19]Talk about yourself without bragging. Talk about your greatest achievements that you are proud of or the ambitions you had and how you managed to achieve them. For example, you can say: "this French or mathematics exercise was really difficult, but I ended up getting through it" or "after months of training, I was able to pass the half marathon, maybe next year I will be able to compete for the big marathon."Be frank and open about his feelings. One of the mixed messages that could come from your behavior is the fact that you give the impression of being cold or pessimistic. Make it a goal to say something truly good about others every day.[20]
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